Anonymous:

Hi! I don’t mean to sound too personal or offensive or anything with this but I’m trying to figure out my gender rn and it’s not going too great, how did you know/decide that you identified as she/they because I think I might as well but I’m really not sure I’m super sorry again if this is too personal Thank you!

here’s the thing, i use any pronouns now, when you sent this to me i used she/they. the trick is that you can ALWAYS change your mind. figuring out your gender can be a lifetime experience, it is not just a box to put yourself into. don’t let anyone tell you your queerness is less because of your uncertainty. try on pronouns like outfits and see if they work for you until you’re able to find something you resonate with. it took me 3-4 years before i felt solid with the label of genderfluid. you can do it! be patient! the people that love you will support you every step of the way.

shrimpcolour:

Right now at this moment in time I am the physical body meant of a fucking fire alarm

hi user shimpcolour love the url you sent me this a while ago but i’m going to be saying this all the time now!

Anonymous:

I just read all of under the rose AND I’M FUCKING SHOOKETH. Omg that series is just I’m actually speechless like the ending has me crying why 😭😭. Such incredible writing

I’M SO GLAD YOU LIKED IT.

read under the rose HERE

Anonymous:

fuck marry kill: chris evans, chris pratt, chris hemsworth

KILL CRISP RAT

fuck chris evans

marry chris hemsworth

Anonymous:

hi i kinda wanna write stuff on my account but i’m scared to actually post it so u have any advice on how to feel more confident with my writing??? thanks! also i love ur account lol

you just have to do it. there’s someone out there that will love it, at least one. do it for them! the more you write the better you get. truly. write like you’re the first person to ever write. write like you’re goddamn ernest hemingway or madeline miller or whoever you admire. play pretend like you’re a world renowned author. people deserve to hear what you have to say. listen to constructive criticism, ignore mean spirited judgment. and just do it.

Anonymous:

Did you know that in the moment where peter is caught with his pants down in ffh and starts moving and panicking you can see his dick swinging? 👀

WHY DID YOU SEND ME THIS.

Anonymous:

You're awesome and I love you and drunk you with my whole heart ❤

remember when i used to get on my blog and promote underage drinking what a time that was y'all :) Please Drink Responsibly!!!!

Anonymous:

hey, im not sure if you know the answer to this, but do you know why people keep talking about tom and the jimmy kimmel incident, and what it is? ive completely forgotten what happened, and im so confused

was there an incident? TH tumblr help?

Anonymous:

Wait wasn't your profile gif Tom a few minutes ago? Cute baby Yoda ;)

i’m going through some identity switches coming up on this blog.

naturallytom:

hi im sending u all the love & i hope everything's okay in terms of your (maybe) pregnancy scare💞💞

ALLY LMAOOOOOOO you sent this to me when i was 19. the guy had ghosted me and my period was a week late. i did not end up being pregnant. i’m dying this is so funny.

Anonymous:

Allie please don't say that, I care about you and would hate it if you're gone :( hang on for every person you're going to meet in the future who's gonna end up being a part of your family, please? Wanna talk?

this was sent to my 19 year old self as well. when you sent this, i hadn’t even hung out with one of my now best friend of almost 2 years yet. you were absolutely right!! i’m so fucking glad i hung on! i met people who have taught me how to love in ways i didn’t even know were possible. that’s so crazy. thank you anon.

Anonymous:

hey! don't say that! I know how you feel rn and I've been thru that so many times. i know it's really hard for you right now but please so many people are going to miss you when you're gone

another ask that was sent to the 19 year old version of me who was SUFFERING. i’m in tears reading this, whoever sent it. i want to give that 19 year old kid a hug so bad right now, because it got so much better. it got SO MUCH BETTER.

Anonymous:

just a reminder that i love you and ur important to so many people including me pls take care of urself

i know for a fact that i was going through the hardest time of my life when this was sent. i’m doing so much better now! thank you for the support when i needed it most<3

Anonymous:

what happened to your marvel podcast?

@bebopbabe and i have very poor time management skills!

bitchyreid:

omg i j realized but is that ur bf as ur pfp if so i love the vibes

hello this ask is from a long time ago! thinking about the boyfriend this probably was….he was certainly a vibe but then he also was a LIAR.